The rather mysterious title of this page comes from the pseudo-acronym of the Twelve Step saying:
"You are you and I am I.", one of the many obvious truths that seem so hard for us to accept, the kind of things that once we understand them prompt a Duh!"
You are different from me and I am different from you; we should appreciate the differences and not try to be alike.
Other obvious truths gone out of fashion are:
God is God and man is not.
Men are men and women are women.
We don't therefore subscribe to Gospel of Saint Thomas, Verse 114 :
Simon Peter said to them, "Make Mary leave us, for females don't deserve life."
Jesus said, "Look, I will guide her to make her male, so that she too may become a living spirit resembling you males. For every female who makes herself male will enter the kingdom of Heaven."
Good is good and evil is evil.
Right is right and wrong is wrong.
Sex is sex and love is love.